Peace of mind can be established by cultivating the skill of not being affected by your thoughts and worries. This skill can be developed for instance through mindfulness meditation, but also other activities that strengthen your ability to focus. It is also important to learn to let go of the past, to forgive others and to develop a certain degree of detachment in order to create the necessary foundation for inner harmony and balance.
Had tears running down when I read this?Read on.....
He was watering the plants in the posh gardens of an International school, heat and dust didn't seem to affect him."Ganga Das, Principal Ma'am wants to see you -- right now"...
The last two words of the peon had lots of emphasis on them, trying to make it sound like an urgency. He quickly got up, washed and wiped his hands and headed towards the Principal's chamber.
The walk from the garden to the office seemed never ending, his heart was almost jumping out of his chest.
He was trying all the permutation and combination, figuring out as to what has gone wrong that she wants to see him urgently...He was a sincere worker and never shirked from his duties... knock knock...
"Madam, you called me?"
"Come inside..." an authoritative voice made him further nervous...
Salt n pepper hair, tied neatly in a french knot, a designer sari-sober and very classic, glasses resting on the bridge of her nose...
She pointed out towards a paper kept on the table...
Read this"...
"B..but Ma'am I am an illiterate person. I can not read English.
Ma'am please forgive me if I have done anything wrong... give me another chance...
I am forever indebted to you for allowing my daughter to study in this school, free of cost... I could have never ever dreamt of such a life for my child.."
And he broke down almost trembling:
"Hold on, you assume a lot...we allowed your daughter because she is very bright and you have been our sincere worker.. Let me call a teacher in, she will read it out and translate it to you... this is written by your daughter and I want you to read this."
Soon enough the teacher was called and she started reading it, translating each line in Hindi...
It read- "Today we are asked to write about Mother's Day.
I belong to a village in Bihar, a tiny village where medical and education still seem like a far fetched dream. Many women die every now and then while giving birth. My mother was one of them too, she could not even hold me in her arms. My father was the first person to hold me.. or perhaps the only person.
Everyone was sad.. as I was a girl and I had "eaten up" my own mother.
My dad was instantly asked to remarry but he refused.
My grandparents forced him by giving all logical, illogical and emotional reasons but he didn't budge.
My grand parents wanted a grandson, they threatened him to remarry or else he will be disowned...
He didn't think twice... he left everything, his acres of land.. a good living, comfortable house, cattles and everything that counts for a good lifestyle in a village. He came to this huge city with absolutely nothing -- but me in his arms. Life was tough, he worked hard day and night.. raised me with tender love and utmost care.
Now I understand why suddenly he developed a dislike for things that I would love to eat when there was only one piece left in the platter.... he would say that he hates eating it and I would finish it considering that he does not like it.... but as I grew older I realised the reason and what sacrifice is all about.
He gave me the best possible comforts beyond his capacity.
This school gave him a shelter, respect and the biggest gift -- an admission to his daughter...
If love and care defines a mother... then my father fits in there.
If compassion defines a mother, my father fits in well in that category too...
If sacrifice defines a mother, my father dominates that category.
So in nut shell.. if a mother is made of love, care sacrifice and compassion...
MY FATHER IS THE BEST MOTHER ON EARTH THEN.
On Mother's Day, I would like to wish my father for being the best parent on earth... I salute him and say it with pride that the hardworking gardener working in this school is my father.
I know I may fail this test after my teacher reads this -- but this would be a very small price one would pay towards an ode to the selfless love of my father.
There was a deafening silence in the room... one could only hear soft sobbing of Ganga Das....
The harsh sun could not wet his clothes with sweat but soft words of his daughter had soaked his chest with tears.... he was standing there with hands folded..
He took the paper from teacher's hands... held it close to his heart and sobbed.
Principal got up.. offered him a chair, glass of water and said something... but, strangely the crispness of her voice was taken over by a surprising warmth and sweetness....
"Ganga Das.. your daughter is given 10/10 marks for this essay... This is the best essay ever written about Mother's Day in the history of this school. We are having the Mother's Day gala event tomorrow and the entire School Management has decided to invite you as the Chief Guest for the event...
This is to honour all the love and sacrifice a man can do to raise his children... to show that you do not have to be a woman to be the perfect parent...
And most importantly this is to reinforce/appreciate/acknowledge the strong belief of your daughter in you, to make her feel proud.. to make the entire school feel proud that we have the best parent on earth as stated by your daughter."
"You are a True Gardner, who is not only looking after the gardens, but also nurturing the most precious flower of your life in such a beautiful way...."
"So Ganga Das, will you be our Chief Guest for the event?
*An American’s mindblowing analysis of Narendra Modi and Indian politics is something you must not miss today !*Postcard TeamJuly 2, 2017
“As an American and a self confessed Indophile, I had a lot of insights.
I gleaned while traversing the length and breadth of the country. Incidentally I take care of funded projects and this exposes me to a interactions with the poor and ultra poor of the country. Hopefully I will debunk a few myths about India, which my North American colleagues should know, along with some Indians who will hopefully read this post:
1. Like it or leave it, the hinterland of India is firmly behind Modi.
They don’t give a rat’s ass if you call them his followers, or “bhakts” as I have heard.
For the first time they have a leader and a party that has gone through almost 3 years without a single financial scam against their name.
For a country used to spectacular monetary frauds and a silent PM who took plausible deniability to laughable proportions, this is a great and welcome change.
2. Muslim don’t hate Modi.
Educated intelligent non Muslims (read Hindus) hate him more !
Simply because... he has hijacked their agenda and has started influencing public opinion more than carefully crafted editorials or freebies doled out during elections.
Armchair experts who discussed Indian politics over the ubiquitous cup of ‘chai’ are being given a nice proverbial kick on their rounded rumps.
The man is shaping opinions and this isn’t being liked by sections of some media, who were interestingly the same set of people who are still smarting from Brexit and our own Trump presidency.
3. The only issue that Indians seem to have against Modi is the specter of the riots that he had apparently engineered as the Chief Minister of the state of Gujarat.
Which in itself seems weird, since their own Supreme Court has absolved him of any wrongdoings ! But a section of media and over zealous continue to fashionably pursue his censure.
Incidentally they went after him for a so called fake encounter where a lady was killed, only to eat their words when the lady was lauded later as one of their own on the Al Qaeda website ! Haven’t heard anything from his detractors on this point after that…
4. I get a sense that a lot of Indians consider it a status symbol to oppose Modi, as it makes them appear intellectual and secular. Case in point was the CM of Delhi (along with a lot of intellectuals) who questioned his educational qualifications.
But again went completely silent when he was exonerated by the University that confirmed their authenticity. It’s the worst kind of ‘spit and run’ politics that you can imagine.
People will keep spitting and hope that something sticks.
Specially because no one can find one thing against this man which will get validated.
5. Public memory in India is notoriously short in India.
The 1984 carnage in which the martial sect of Sikhs were mercilessly slaughtered has been forgotten by the state of Punjab, which has today booted out the Akali Dal and brought in the Congress. I see that not only as an example of short memory, but also as a positive and mature sign, as a very corrupt incumbent party was thrown out.
But then if this is being welcomed by a lot of intellectuals, why is a section of polity so perturbed by the BJP getting substantial Muslim votes in UP ? Just like how the Sikhs have forgiven the Congress, maybe the Muslims have forgiven the BJP !
Mind boggling double standards…
Like the Sikhs, why can’t Muslims also want good governance and development?
6. As the third largest economy in PPP terms, India stunned the world by pulling out 86% of its currency that was in circulation.While it is still debatable whether it was a good move (as an Economics major, am not completely convinced), the country seems to lap it up.
My sense is not whether it was a good or a bad move; it was a VISIBLE move, which when you analyze with the BJPs track record of no scams, seems to make Modi even more credible.
7. Where Modi lost the trick (in my opinion) is when he promised to put in a couple of million rupees in the accounts of the poor and underprivileged. And his promise of better days.
That has backfired and seems to have given fodder to a lot of Indians who were expecting him to work miracles.And I am not surprised.
Since I do know that in the land of spiritual enlightenment, miracles are often expected and taken for granted.
Finally, I know after what we did (remember Trump as POTUS),
me as an American may get laughed off by a lot of intelligent and secular Indians for my opinion. But I will still risk it.Give the man a chance !
He is doing the right thing and has balls and guts and spine.
The man did an open truck rally in the holy city of Kashi, for Christ’s sake ! Try walking in those bylanes (I speak from experience) to know how massively mental it really is.
I had a memory of JFK in Dallas. One crazy sniper would have plunged your country into chaos. Be happy that it didn’t happen. And hope that it never does.
Who knows it better than us Yanks, as we have had the maximum assassinations or attempts on our serving Presidents.
Stop being fashionable and ridiculing those who support him. You may think it is cool to do so, but the joke is on you. Most of the country loves him. So while you could agree to disagree with his policies, what you don’t realize is that ridiculing his supporters only makes them more supportive.
It’s just like how Android users ridiculed IOS as the worlds worst ‘closed software’.
But the moment they opened their eyes to what the iPhone could really do, they changed not only their opinion, but also their handsets.
Do you realize that when you speak to Modi detractors, they completely lose their ability to be objective about their opinions?
I have yet to come across a single detractor who is open to looking at Modi objectively and probably moving to the other side.
However there are many Modi supporters who I know have criticized his policies and probably changed their allegiance. Makes me thus wonder as to who the real ‘bakts’ are?
The ones who follow Modi or the ones who debunk anything and everything that he does?
There seems to be no spirit of bipartisan acceptance at all.
It was shocking that even the army surgical strikes were debunked by a few political parties in India.
Sorry folks, we know we have Trump, but even the most uneducated American would stand behind any President when it came to my country.
When you start questioning the credibility of your own armed forces, there is something something seriously seriously wrong with you. The star spangled banner is the supreme authority in the US of A; and the tricolor should definitely be theirs.
Unfortunately that doesn’t seem to be the case in India.
I know America won’t be great again, simply because we are a great nation and will remain so. Trump will be gone in 4 years but Modi seems set to rule India for 5 years beyond 2019.
Consider it your greatest fortune. Imagine a few more years of scams and a silent PM who couldn’t translate his extra ordinary brilliance and credentials into what could have been in my opinion the greatest prime ministership of all time. Mr Singh has a resume that could be the aggregation of academic achievements of 10 to the top of class Harvard graduates in any year !
Do read up about this extraordinary individual and the extraordinary and unbelievable set of scams that he presided over. Not because of his ineptitude, but the mind numbing control exercised by a dynasty who are now unwittingly destroying their grand old party.
Sorry, if this sounds like a diatribe, but I love India and all it’s people.
It takes one look at Dr Shashi Tharoor’s speech at Oxford to realize that it’s not India Shining or developing. India is simply now regaining its rightful place in the world pecking order. And if you want to continue steaming ahead and getting there, the ‘chai’ seller of Gujarat seems to be your best bet.”
(Jason K)