You Have To Learn If Not Laugh

An emotional story.....Worth sharing. :
After his
fathers death...
Son decides to leave mom to old age home..
Would visit her on and off.....
Once son receives call from old age home....
Mom very serious ...please come to visit ..
Son comes and see mom very critical. .
Dying..
Asks mom what can I do for you...

Mom replies....
please install fans in the old age home ....there are none...
Son , surprised ..questions :
.All this while you were here you never complained .....now you have few hours left you are saying .....why?
Mom says .....
it's ok , I've managed with the heat.....but when your children will send you here,
I am afraid. .
you will not be able to manage ....

Put your car keys beside your bed at night.
Tell your spouse, your children, your neighbors, your parents, your Dr's office, the check-out girl at the market, everyone you run across. Put your car keys beside your bed at night.
If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.
...

This tip came from a neighborhood watch coordinator. Next time you come home for the night and you start to put your keys away, think of this: It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it. It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage.
If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break into your house, odds are the burglar/rapist won't stick around. After a few seconds, all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there. This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or a sexual abuse crime.
P.S. I am sending this to everyone I know because I think it is fantastic. Would also be useful for any emergency, such as a heart attack, where you can't reach a phone. My Mom has suggested to my Dad that he carry his car keys with him in case he falls outside and she doesn't hear him. He can activate the car alarm and then she'll know there's a problem.
Please pass this on even IF you've read it before. It's a reminder

“ गुज़री हुई ज़िंदगी को कभी याद न कर ॰ 
तकदीर में जो लिखा है उसकी फरियाद न कर ॰ ॰ 
जो होगा वो होकर रहेगा,
तू कल की फिकर में अपनी आज की हंसी बर्बाद न कर ॰ 
हंस मरते हुए भी गाता है और मोर नाचते हुए भी रोता है ॰ ॰ 
ये ज़िंदगी का फंडा है दोस्त,
दुखों वाली रात नींद नहीं आती
और
खुशी वाली रात कौन सोता है.....”


***** ऊँगली बिना हीरे के ******

ज्योतिषी ने साफ़ साफ़ कह दिया कि जब तक हीरे कि अंगूठी नहीं पहनोगे तब तक तुम्हारा भविष्य और वर्त्तमान दोनों का कुछ न हो पायेगा | ज्योतिषी ने बताया था कि यदि मैं हीरे कि अंगूठी पहन लूँ तो बिड़ला ,अम्बानी ,वाड्रा हो सकता हूँ प्रधान मंत्री हो सकता हूँ | इस बात को बीस साल बीत गये हैं ....हीरे कि अंगूठी कि " तलाश जारी है " | उसने वोह ऊँगली भी बताई थी जिसमे " हीरे कि अंगूठी" पहननी थी | ऊँगली बीस साल से जहाँ कि तहां है बस हीरे के इंतज़ार मैं दुबली हो गई है मुझे इतने साल से इंतज़ार करती ऊँगली अब देखि नहीं जाती |

ज्योतिषी ने बताया " हीरा पहनोगे तो पैसा आएगा" मेरी परेशानी है कि " पैसा आये तो हीरा पहनू " ऐसा नहीं कि हमने कोशिश नहीं कि " कसम पटकापुर कि उड़ती धुल में लिपटी हुई जलेबिओं " कि खूब कि और जम के की | पहले हीरा दो तीन हज़ार में मिल जाता था जब हमारे पास दो हज़ार इक्कठे हुए तब तक हीरा पांच हज़ार का हो गया | और तो और उन दिनों हमारी कड़की का आलम ये था कि हैदराबाद के निज़ाम के हीरे जवाहरात भी बिक गए और हम खरीद नहीं पाये ...

हीरे के एक श्रेष्ठ व्यापारी से मिला कहा कि भैया कोई भड़िया सा हीरा दिखाओ | उसने दिखाया ...अरे ...उसका काम यही जो था | हीरा पसंद आने पर मैंने भी विरोधी दल के नेता कि तरह प्रस्ताव रखा कि भैया ये हीरा मुझे फिलहाल " किराये पे उठा " दो जब इसके प्रभाव से पैसे आयेंगे तो खरीद लूंगा | वो नहीं माना | बोला कि सर्राफे मैं न ऐसी कोई परंपरा है न कोई ऐसा रिवाज़ | "अति निम्न माध्यम वर्ग" कि नई श्रेणी में उसने हमे समायोजित कर दिया और बात टूट गई | ऊँगली इंतज़ार में और दुबली होने लगी |

तब मैंने एक बैंक मैनेजर से चर्चा कि | लोन लेना चाहता हूँ ?....किस लिए ....हीरे कि अंगूठी लेनी है |फिर उसे विस्तार से समझाया कि कैसे हीरे के प्रभाव से पैसा आएगा और लोन वापस कर दूंगा ...उसे ज्योतिषी कि राय का भी हवाला दिया | सोचा था बैंक मैनेजर है समझदार होगा इस "पायलट प्रोजेक्ट" को जरुर मंज़ूर करेगा पर वो नहीं माना | मेरी ऊँगली फिर इंतज़ार करने लगी |

अब तक हमारी उम्र शादी के उच्तम पड़ाव पे पहुँच गई थी | जहाँ भी बात बनती मैं हीरे कि अंगूठी कि मांग रख देता और उन्हें समझाता भी कि शादी के कुछ समय बाद इसके प्रभाव से इतना पैसा आएगा कि आपकी लड़की को हीरे से लाद दूंगा लेकिन वो नादान लोग फिर लौट कि ही नहीं आते थे | थक हार कर बड़के भैया भाभी साफ़ साफ़ कह दिए कि या तो " हीर ले लो या हीरा " सो हम भी बगैर हीरे कि अंगूठी लिए शादी को मान गए | ये बात अलग है कि " ना हीर मिली ना हीरा "

मेरी ऊँगली इंतज़ार कर रही है | मैं इस हीरा वीहिन ऊँगली को उठा कर नेतृत्व को कोसता हूँ जो मुझे एक हीरे कि अंगूठी नहीं दे पाया वो क्या गरीबी दूर कर पायेगा क्या बेकारी मिटा पायेगा |

अब आखिरी उपाय सोच रहा हूँ हीरे कि खदान के आसपास जमीन का एक टुकड़ा हथिया लूँ और खुद जाके खोदूं देखूं कि मिलता है कि नहीं

Hi. Just received an awesome message. Sharing with you, hoping gives a whole new perspective to our lives

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. 

When the boy was around two years old, one morning the
husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.

His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all.

It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :

1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead..!! He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.

Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened..!!

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.

What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy
from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there
would be much fewer problems in the world.

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and
fears.

And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

This story is really worth reading

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.

By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.
"Insaan ghar badalata hai .... Libaas badalata hai ..... Rishte badalata hai ... Dost badalata hai .... ,Phir bhi pareshaan kyon rehta hai ? .... Kyon ki wo khud ko nahi badalata " ....

एक बार एक शहरी परिवार मेले मेँ घुमने गया,
मेले मेँ 1 घंटे तक घुमे कि अचानक उनका बेटा मेले मेँ खो गया,
दोनो पति-पत्नी ने मेले मेँ बहुत ढ़ुढ़ते है, लेकिन
लङका नही मिलता है,
लङके कि माँ जोर-जोर से रोने लगती है, बाद मेँ पुलिस
को सुचना देते है,
आधे घण्टे बाद लङका मिल जाता है,
लङके के मिलते ही उसका पति गाँव का टिकिट लेकर
आता है, और वो सब बस मेँ बेठकर गाँव रवाना हो जाते है,
तभी पत्नी ने पुछा: हम गाँव क्यो जा रहे है, अपने घर
नही जाना है क्या?
तभी उसका pati बोला:
" तु तेरी औलाद के बिना आधा घण्टा नही रह सकती,
तो मेरी माँ गाँव मेँ पिछले 10 साल से मेरे बिना कैसे
जी रही होगी..??


A son and his father were walking on the mountains. 

Suddenly, his son falls, hurts himself and screams: “AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!” 

To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating, somewhere in the mountain: “AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!”

Curious, he yells: “Who are you?”

He receives the answer: “Who are you?” And then he screams to the mountain: “I admire you!”

The voice answers: “I admire you!”

Angered at the response, he screams: “Coward!”

He receives the answer: “Coward!”

He looks to his father and asks: “What’s going on?”

The father smiles and says: “My son, pay attention.”

Again the man screams: “You are a champion!”

The voice answers: “You are a champion!” The boy is surprised, but does not understand.

Then the father explains: “People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.” It gives you back everything you say or do. Our life is simply a reflection of our actions. If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart. If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence. This relationship applies to everything, in all aspects of life; Life will give you back everything you have given to it.”

Moral: “Your life is not a coincidence. It’s a reflection of you

मैंने भगवान से कहा,
"मेरे सभी दोस्तों को खुश रखना."
.
भगवन बोले, "ठीक है तेरे कहने पर सिर्फ 4
दिन के लिए. वो चार दिन तू बता,"
.
मैं बोला ठीक है,
" summer day "
" winter day "
" rainy day "
" spring day "
.
भगवान् confused हो गए बोले,
"ये तो पूरा साल मांग लिया,
नहीं चलेगा सिर्फ 3 दिन,"
.
मैं फिर बोला "ठीक है,
" yesterday "
" today "
" tomorrow "

भगवन फिर Confused बोले, "सिर्फ
दो दिन."
.
मैं बोला "ठीक है दिन और रात,"
.
भगवान् फिर Confused बोले."सिर्फ 1
दिन"
.
मैं बोला "हरदिन.".
.
भगवन हंसने लगे और बोले
"अच्छा बाबा मेरा पीछा छोड़ो, तुम और
तुम्हरे दोस्त सदा खुश रहो...
kyu k.. "hr ek frnd jaruri hota hai..."

If you have
Food in your fridge,
Clothes on your body,
A roof over your head and
A place 2 sleep,
You're richer than 75% of the entire world.
.....
If you have
Money in your wallet,
A little change,
And Can go anywhere you want
You are among the top 18% of the world's wealthy
people.
..
If you are alive today with more health than illness,
You are more blessed than the million people
who will not survive this week and die.
..
If you can actually 'READ' this message
and understand it,
You are more fortunate than the 3 billion people in the
world who cannot see,
cannot read or suffer mental retardation.
..
Life is not about complaining of pain and sorrows.
It's about a thousand other things that make u happy!!!

Recently I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'

The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'

They kissed and the daughter left.

The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'

'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'..

'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough..' May I ask what that means?'

He began to smile.

'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone...' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

He then began to cry and walked away.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.

* Only if you wish, send this to the people you will never forget and remember to send it back to the person who sent it to you. If you don't send it to anyone it may mean that you are in such a hurry that you have forgotten your friends.

TAKE TIME TO LIVE....

My friends and loved ones,
I WISH YOU ENOUGH.


Chhoti si fish ne Apni Maa se Poocha : Hum Pani mein kyon rehte hai, zameen pe kyon nahi rehte ?

Mummy Fish sweetly replied: Hum Fish hai isliye Pani mein rehte hain, Zameen par toh sab "selfish" rehte hain !!!


Death asked Life :
Why does everyone love you and hate me.
Life replied :
Because I am a beautiful Lie and you are painful Truth

A Lovely Logic for a beautiful Life
Never try to maintain relations in your life Just try to maintain life in your relations
3 stages of Life:
Teen Age – Has time & energy – But no Money
Working Age – Has Money & Energy – But No Time
Old Age – Has Money & Time – But No Energy

We are very good Lawyers for our mistakes; and very good Judges for other's mistakes
World always say – Find good people and leave bad ones.
But I say, Find the good in people and ignore the bad in them Because No one is born perfect

A fantastic sentence written on every Japanese bus stop.
Only buses will stop here – Not your time So Keep walking towards your goal

Negative Thinkers focus on Problems
Positive thinkers focus on result

2 well dressed LAWYERS went to an expensive restaurant, ordered 2 drinks then got sandwiches from their own briefcases & proceeded to eat them.
WAITRESS: "Sorry, sirs, but you cannot eat your OWN food here! It's against the rules here."
The lawyers EXCHANGED sandwiches & continued their meals!
(Only lawyers can easily find loopholes in rules!)

5 NICE LITTLE STORIES :-

1. Once, all villagers decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all the People gathered but only 1 boy came with an umbrella.
THAT'S FAITH

2. When u throw a baby in the air, she laughs because she knows u will catch her.
THAT'S TRUST

3. Every night we go to bed, without any assurance of being alive the next Morning but still we set the alarms to wake up.
THAT'S HOPE

4. We plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future.
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

5. We see the world suffering, But still we get married !
THAT'S OVER CONFIDENCE